Sunday, April 10, 2005

" On Your Own "

In life there come along some rare chances when you can be yourself. Stripped of all accessories, free from the false identities surrounding your individuality.

A good example is the Army training period.
In a mess hall, things like your family, your education, your profession, your bank account, your social status, ... don't mean
anything anymore.

You are just your self.
Your real you.
Your true, original, inner you.
Your feet get back on earth.
You get to know yourself better:
Your often-overlooked weak points, your long-forgotten potentials.
You - have to - try to define your relations with others once again.
Based on the realities this time.
And you - can - try to make the best of what you really are.
By just remembering that you are an
INDIVIDUAL.

And with that privilege comes the responsibility:
You - and only you - are responsible for all the choices you make.
Not your family. Not your friends. Not the society. Not the government.
No-one.
Just you yourself.

And what's more, to fulfill that, you are all on your own.
No-one has to - or even is able to - carry the load which is meant to be yours.

It's your choice after all.
You make it alone.
You do it alone.
So, consider your own ideals. And mind no-one else. Absolutely no-one.
And once you've come to the right decision yourself, don't hesitate.

All this makes you essential and irreplaceable.
And you will be a unique individual, provided of course, that you live up to the name.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dear Ali,
your writings are just amazingly great. I am happy I visited this site of you.Keep the nice work going man !
Sincerely, Rahim Emami

Anonymous said...

six of one, half dozen of other !!!

Anonymous said...

Hey!
U Ok?
Seems u r doinn well fightin ur war ... eh?... so nice as before ... or ... even better?!
I love wut u Write Dear Dadashi!

Anonymous said...

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